Venus Sings and Votes: Election Day Reflections and Tips

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by Reza Corinne Clifton

PROVIDENCE, RI – People have a lot to say about the elections. Well I too wanted to say a little something even though I too am suffering from election coverage fatigue. Specifically what I’m sharing below is a list – a guide of sorts, really – for how to navigate, circumvent, or quickly put aside questions like these: “Why are you even voting? How can you vote for her (or him)? Why are you voting for a third party? Aren’t you selling your soul by showing up to the polls? Why aren’t you voting for someone you believe in? Are you trying to ruin this election?

When these inquiries abound, and when your sense of optimism, cynicism, reality and the underworld combine to make your head explode, consider these ideas instead:

1) Yes I think folks should vote. The struggles, the blood, the ongoing conflicts around the world that are fought in pursuit of the ballot…yes. Vote.

2) Every election isn’t everything. Local elections, county elections, ballot initiatives – these are closer to everything. How you treat your neighbors and those different from you, what you do when witnessing injustice or after a mirror has been put up allowing you to see the injustices you carry out, helping the next generation, supporting the previous generations – these things are everything.

3) If you live the average life cycle of Americans, you will vote in many elections. Sometimes you will vote for things, sometimes you will vote against things. Yes, it’s okay to vote against something just as it’s okay to vote for something. It’s also okay to vote while leaving feelings aside and outside of the polling places.

4) The people running for the presidency are basically cardboard cut-out figures. Yes. Cardboard. Or maybe those flying vinyl dummies outside of car shops and furniture stores. They will sway this way for this money, this way for this arms deal, and this way for this political ally. Stop giving so much of your emotions to cardboard. Hear what they’re saying, hear what others are saying, vote and move on. Remember, cardboard and vinyl dummies can’t fully be relied upon to withstand the rain, never mind your emotions. Try not to give so much of your heart to these people and this process.

5) If you want to vote third-party, consider what you’re going to do after Tuesday to strengthen that alternative party’s positioning in the next election. And by all means, try to make it work! But whatever you do, don’t give too much attention to the folks berating you for not going with a third party. Trust me – many of these folks are hypocrites and assholes. No really…assholes. I know some of them and they’re the type to manipulate, denigrate and abuse women, to call for unity while being decidedly abrasive to those trying to unify, and to give attention only to national races when any seasoned community organizer will tell you to keep your eyes on the local prize. Seriously, vote 3rd if you want, but not because some pseudo-intellectual with a sea of disgruntled community members always in tow told you so. Also see numbers 2-4.

6) Whether it’s your candidate that wins or the other gal, if you think something’s wrong, you should start trying to fix things in your own community, in your own way, and/or with support from neighbors. Don’t put all your stock in cardboard. Don’t. They’ve got enough support; someone else needs you.